Nothing says oversized yoga pants quite like the term “Stay-at-home-Mom.” Since the day I brought my oldest son, Landon (3), home and started down this road of motherhood I disliked the term Stay-at-home-Mom or SAHM and by the time my second son, Corbin (1), came along, I loathed it. For one thing we don’t actually stay at home; we leave the house regularly, so in my opinion it’s misleading. I suppose I could use terms like “homemaker” or “housewife” but they are outdated and add a sense of inferiority that I also don’t appreciate. It is for this reason that I strive to be a “Balabusta” Mom.<\/p>\n
I first heard of the term Balabusta from my Nonnie who admits “I love the sound of the word – it’s a fun word.” Balabusta is a Yiddish expression describing a good homemaker. The traditional role of a Balabusta includes doing household chores for the family and encouraging their spiritual bonding as well as holding the family together. I really liked this definition because being a mother is about far more than babysitting your children. There is more behind the scenes work than most of us can fit into the day and we are charged with the immeasurable task of being the operations manager of our home. It is an enormous amount of effort when things are running smoothly, and it is an unbearable amount of stress and exhaustion when things are amuck. <\/p>\n
This blog will cover all the ins and outs of motherhood from the daily struggles, the momentary joys, the heartaches, headaches, belly laughs, snotty noses, mashed potatoes on the ceiling fan, and everything in between. I will share moments of brilliance where I’ve turned a catastrophe into a treasured memory and moments of suck where I have cursed at my 1 year old for spilling juice. I’m sort of a “textured” Momma, not quite granola not quite soda pop, but always learning and adjusting. <\/p>\n
So whether you are a Stay-at-home-Mom, a Work-outside-the-home-Mom, a Work-at-home-Mom, a Single Mom, or a Stepmom, you might also be a Balabusta Mom. A Balabusta realizes that they are endeavoring on a journey which can always be improved upon and its affects are as simple as having a clean pair of socks when you need them and as far reaching as affecting generations to come. Its enormity can be overwhelming, but its reward is a home. And of all the places to be in the world…there is no place like home. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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