At the end of this month we celebrate Memorial Day—a national day honoring soldiers who died while defending our country. It was officially proclaimed a holiday on May 5, 1868 by General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, in his General Order No. 11, and was first observed on May 30, 1868, when flowers were placed on the graves of Union and Confederate soldiers at Arlington National Cemetery.
Though there are many cities and towns that claim to be the birthplace for Memorial Day, President Lyndon Johnson officially proclaimed Waterloo, NY as the birthplace in May 1966. Wearing red poppies on this day is a way to honor those who died for our country.
Now more than ever we should pause to honor these soldiers. We’re all aware that there’s a war going on. Everyday we hear news of another fallen solider. Whether that person is from Alabama or New York, someone you know or don’t know, it’s still heartbreaking to hear.
For some people, the war is a distant event, going on in a place half a world away. For veterans and those who have husbands, wives, sons, daughters and friends fighting, war takes on a different meaning.
Then there are the veterans. Last month, the Town of Bethlehem lost Captain Timothy Moshier when the helicopter he was in crashed while he was on routine air patrol in Iraq.
Living and working in Delmar, I saw the crowds of people, the lines of traffic, the media, the fire and police officials. All were dressed in their finest on the day of his funeral. Seeing this in person, rather than on the news, made it all the more real. Gone is a 25-year old husband. A father. A son.
Many people look forward to Memorial weekend because it means a three-day weekend. This May 29th, think of it as more than just an occasion for picnics and barbeques; think of it as a time to honor the soldiers, young and old, who have given their lives for this country. After all, they’re not just fighting for their country. They’re fighting for yours.
Enjoy!
Mary Beth DeCecco
marybeth@capitalregionliving.com